Lucy:
“Mr. Smith is refusing to accept my science project because he says my paper isn’t long
enough! I just don’t understand; I worked so hard on that and now it was all a waste of
time.”Peter: “Don’t worry, you can always enter again next
year.”Lucy: “I don’t know why I bother talking to you, you
don’t listen to a word I say!”What adjustments can Lucy and Peter each make to their communication,
in order to avoid misunderstandings like this in the future?
Answer
Answer:
Lucy can express that she simply wants Peter to listen and offer support, without trying to solve the problem. Peter can try to refrain from offering advice and simply express his empathy for Lucy’s feelings.