Miguel is new to the staff of the school paper. He is the youngest of four kids at home, and the first week or two he feels like the kids on the school paper are bossing him around. Finally, he talks to the head of the paper. She is a bit confused because she thought the staff was being helpful by constantly giving direction to a new student, and their language and the tone of their comments were polite and respectful. What is most likely shaping Miguel’s experience?